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Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Panties
Someone sent me this in an email recently. Still on the fence about it. Maybe I like the message. Maybe there are things just too complicated to be solved by undergarments. Or maybe I just soiled my last pair of big girl panties.
I don't know what exactly you're referring to, but I always believe that each person has a right to feel sorry for themselves, be pissed off, refuse to forgive, and generally allow the pity party to party on...as long as they are doing their best to work on the problem/solution.
Be pissed, feel bad, scream a few obscenities - then move on...knowing that black cloud is hovering over you but you're still able to dodge out of its shadow every now and again. Then, suck it up and do your best.
Nobody with a heart would ask any more from another human being. Thinking of you!
thanks, Dena, your words seemed to have an effect, my mood has improved! I keep cycling thru the shitty stuff but end up on a good note.
yes, Mwa, that's what I thought at first, dunno whether it's a 'pull yourself up by the bootstraps' message or 'get over it' - either way, I think if we could make our faces like that NOBODY would bother us again! ha!
totally unrelated, bit it's what popped into my head at the moment I read your post:
When I lost all my weight, for some reason, my panties were the last thing I replaced. For a while there, my big girl panties were REALLY big....and I couldn't figure out why I was so uncomfortable.
I don't know what exactly you're referring to, but I always believe that each person has a right to feel sorry for themselves, be pissed off, refuse to forgive, and generally allow the pity party to party on...as long as they are doing their best to work on the problem/solution.
ReplyDeleteBe pissed, feel bad, scream a few obscenities - then move on...knowing that black cloud is hovering over you but you're still able to dodge out of its shadow every now and again. Then, suck it up and do your best.
Nobody with a heart would ask any more from another human being. Thinking of you!
Sounds like a rude message to send one, I think. There are subtler ways to convey a message.
ReplyDeleteIgnoring that thought, the look on her face is priceless. I may have to practise that in the mirror.
thanks, Dena, your words seemed to have an effect, my mood has improved! I keep cycling thru the shitty stuff but end up on a good note.
ReplyDeleteyes, Mwa, that's what I thought at first, dunno whether it's a 'pull yourself up by the bootstraps' message or 'get over it' - either way, I think if we could make our faces like that NOBODY would bother us again! ha!
totally unrelated, bit it's what popped into my head at the moment I read your post:
ReplyDeleteWhen I lost all my weight, for some reason, my panties were the last thing I replaced. For a while there, my big girl panties were REALLY big....and I couldn't figure out why I was so uncomfortable.
hmmm! that is a very interesting point... sheds a new light on the matter. I'm fascinated by it.
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